Everyday Kindness

Kindness is greater than merely an elementary word or a disposable expression. The real intent of kindness is manifest by means of your thoughts and actions every single day. Kindness is personified with the inner countenances of harmlessness, which can aid you to re-establish the balance in your life and redress the karma we all carry. Come to be that individual of true and unquestionable kindness to expand happiness and no hurt into the world around you.

The Mindfulness Challenge

As anyone who practices mindfulness, you must face the challenge of the aspects which you have pushed aside. While it is an admirable practice to improve your focus in life by pushing aside other thoughts, emotions or feelings, you need to take a deeper challenge. The challenge is to realise that pushing aside any thoughts, emotions or feelings, does not make them disappear. When pushing them aside, they continue to exist on the periphery of your consciousness.

 

You need to understand these aspects within your life so that you can then move beyond them. Moving beyond them, you can no longer react to the stimuli which they produce. However, if you leave them unattended within the recesses of your mind, they are like the proverbial Pandora’s box. As such, any emotional aspects not appropriately understood or banished completely from your mind, can lead to many unforeseen problems.

Is your Mind Making you Busy?

When every little thing around you appears to be rushing by at a frantic pace, stop for a moment. At that point pose the question, is it the world that is hectic, or is it my mind? You may well discover that the truth is, that your mind is cramming your day with countless and frequently unwanted and often unwarranted thoughts.

Year for Change

One thing which is certain in the world is that change is inescapable. The quicker you recognise that changes transpire as an intrinsic and healthy part of life, the more fluidly and in harmony, your life will likely unfurl. A beneficial lesson, which can be grasped on life’s journey, is that you are much better and wiser to take control of your life and circumstances.  Recognise when it is time to make favourable adjustments, and afterwards, proactively make that change take place for yourself.

Your own Spectator

Your awareness makes it possible for you to become attentive of aspects within your life. A pivotal proficiency to grasp is to be able to observe your internal thoughts and emotions as if you were a spectator. Whenever you become aware of emotions, thoughts or feelings, you have an opportunity. You can stop briefly, then decide to accept or alter your way of thinking. In doing so, your awareness can result in a more satisfied and well-balanced life.

In the Moment

There are often times during the course of a day when you can direct your attention to help bring facets of calmness within you. As you take a walk down the street, or by way of the park, you might focus on the sounds you take in. What is important is that you are in that present, as you can use these techniques without the rigour of a schedule – you can gain from their application any time in your life.

Time to Meditate

There are no preeminent times to practice meditation, however, most will concur that it is necessary to develop some time for you, no matter the time of day. While conventional meditation practice in a relaxing location where you are less likely to be distracted is valuable, you can apply aspects of your cognition, mindfulness or meditation at any time or place. Undoubtedly, it is in these hectic, stressful or uncontrolled times when you need the real benefits of these meditative practices the most.

Everything is Connected

When two things take place successively we call them cause and effect, if we think one event made the other one take place. We call it a reaction if we believe one event is the response to the other. If we perceive that two incidents are unrelated, we call it a mere coincidence. If we believe somebody deserved what took place, we call it retaliation or reward, depending upon whether the event was adverse or favourable for the recipient. If we cannot discover a factor for both events happening in close proximity, we call it an accident. Ponder for a moment, that everything is connected so that events produce ripples of effect.

Know Thy Self

An essential and frequently neglected aspect of meditation, awakening or attunement is the importance of knowing yourself.

If you do not comprehend yourself, your thoughts, emotions, reactions, concerns and desires, then you will constantly battle to be in harmony within yourself. Any type of awakening or meditation will result in an inevitable surge in the energies of your inner true-self. As these energies increase within you, they can create problems as they feed your own emotions, anxieties and reactions. If you do not know yourself, you might look to blame others for your troubles, when actually the challenges are from within, triggered by the awakening of your own inner energies feeding elements concealed deep within your own self.

A Noisy Mind

The utmost aspiration for anybody undertaking meditation is to realise a comprehensive quietness of the mind. However, for many of us, this is frankly not achievable. If you have a noisy mind, attempting to attain an absolute silence of mind may be difficult to achieve. Typically, your very own attempts to quieten the mind will replenish your mind with the noise of thoughts similar to those which you are attempting to eliminate. While you might not have the ability to attain a total quietness of mind, you should not give up. After all, it is more important to focus on mastering your mind. The distinction being, that as you come to be that master, you can learn to focus your mind with one thought, so by banishing the noise to the background.

Destination Dependency

Be mindful of the destination dependency; where it becomes a fixation with the notion that happiness is elsewhere. That happiness can be magically found at your next destination, at your next job or even with a different companion. Until you surrender the concept that happiness is in another place, it is going to never be where you are.

Your Well-being

The flow of energy throughout the human apparatus is important for your continued health and well-being. Gradually your energy pathways, typically described as meridians, can come to be clogged due to the accumulation of emotional blockages. Through the application of Solar Radiance to unblock your energy paths, your own energies can then flow to nurture all parts of you.